But when we walked a mile together with Someone,
Then.......Coming back Alone is Difficult ..
Differentstrokes ---different strokes of life.
Dreaming is a part of life. Dreams are considered to be the gateway to an inner world hence everyone dreams for as long as they live. Even unborn babies dream in their mother’s womb, it is believed.
Dreams are expressed in visual language and portray a person’s repressed experiences and desires. According to scientific research into dreams, founded by Freud and Jung, dream images and activities show symbolic structures, and thus became psychotherapy’s most important aid in exploration of the unconscious.
Personally, I find this partially true but I don’t believe this to be the end-all theory on dreams. I believe dreams can be categorized into three broad divisions. First are the dreams we see when we have not fallen into a deep slumber, i.e., when we sleep lightly, it is here that we work out our mind’s repressed desires or experiences. They are easy to recollect when we wake up and also more or less easy to understand and interpret in order to know what is bothering us or what is it that we are seeking in our everyday life. For example, I was three years of age when my father got me a book on penguins. I was totally taken in by the photographs and the write-up on them. That night I dreamt that I was marooned on a snow-covered terrain and about a dozen penguins walking towards me and I woke up. My sister had gone to bed one night without having her meal as she was very sleepy, that night she dreamt that a party was on in the house and all sorts of delicacies laid out on the dining-table and however much she tried to reach out for her plate, something or the other came in between and she woke up frustrated.
The second category is when we are in deep sleep. The dreams then are difficult to recall in its totality. Here comes the symbolic structure. We get our information from our souls about some impending happenings. For example, it is believed that if you see a snake entwined inside your house then there are all chances of a new baby coming to the family, birds symbolize intellectual matters, amputation warns of the loss of a family member or impeded progress or loss of freedom. Butterfly indicates a mind going astray, bath a symbol of change and cleansing. Burglar or burglary indicates or refers to something or some incident which has been overlooked or suppressed in day-to-day living of the person. As an example I would like to tell you of an uncle of mine who was never afraid to take up a fight for a cause he considered right, was frequently referred to as an actual coward because very often in his sleep he yelled out that there is a burglar in the house or that a burglary has taken place in his house. Long after he passed away it came to light that he was hiding a major family secret in order not to affect the lives of many other family members. There are many other such symbols. A knowledge of the meaning of these symbols is of great assistance in the interpretation of dreams and thus helps in psychotherapy.
The third and final category is where the spiritual aspect comes in. It can hardly be denied that often we heard of people who have received many a message or warning from the other world, or from dead relatives. This cannot be entirely an imagination. One person I know had leukoderma and was very depressed about it because the doctors had said that there is hardly any chance of a full recovery. While she was trying to come terms with it and also draw succor from the fact that the doctors also assured that it would not spread any further, she dreamt one night that she was standing by the sea-shore (she did not live near one then or before) and a veiled lady came up to her and gave her a small packet in which there were some powder contents and told her to take it if she wanted to be cured. The affected lady immediately consumed it. When she woke up she was very scared, not knowing what implications the dream had but before a week was out ALL the white patches had completely disappeared. You will just have to believe me as this is something which was witnessed by many of my family members.
Fifteen years prior to his demise, my father was diagnosed having prostrate cancer. Now cancer is CANCER, we ran helter-skelter to different doctors hoping against all hopes that there would be some other option other than surgery. The answer from all quarters was the same. ‘Nothing but surgery’. A week or two later, my mother in her dream herself in a temple-like place with a lot of sagacious looking people telling her that what she wants is impossible (she was not aware of her question) but she was not ready to accept ‘no’ for an answer. Soon after a man came out of a side-room and told her to go back home her request will be answered soon. Believe me; within two days an acquaintance informed us about a doc from a different branch of medicine, who treated such cases without surgery. Since that treatment for two years, my father required none other and departed from this world, a hail and hearty person a year after my mother passed away.
This is just two of the many examples I can provide. My idea is to say that our dreams are just not a reflection of our inner most mind and its wants and desires but also a path for supernatural intervention in our daily lives. When we sleep deeply our souls can reach out to a different world wherefrom we gain some information or knowledge. The ‘veiled lady’ or the ‘sagacious man’ is the expression which our souls provide, so that we can identify. Suppose instead of a veiled lady there was a giant amoebic creature hinting in sign language, would we follow the meaning? Our souls thus convert the images into objects or living beings for us to understand and also give our dreams a sense of normalcy.
To say that dreams are no more than an expression of our sub-conscious minds wants and desires which we suppress under social pressures, is not wholly right. It also is a window through which we can reach out to the outer sphere of this world.
Recently a friend of mine told me to me to give meditation a chance in order to calm my frayed nerves as well as to improve my daily performance at my work-place. Although this may seem to be a common advice by many, I decided to give it a try. I always wondered how a person can meditate with full deliberation, as I always thought that meditation was a state of the mind which a person reaches in the progression of his/her life and after a definite disenchantment of the worldly joys and pleasures. At that stage a person is open to the concept of meditation as a means of keeping oneself in harmony with nature and also finding peace.
When I decided to give meditation a chance, I looked up many books and articles on this topic. I was surprised to know that it is considered as a remedy for many common as well as rare or near-fatal diseases by many doctors and scientists the entire world over. In the
The ancient yogis described the practice of meditation as a powerful tonic that increases energy, rejuvenates the cells and also helps in withstanding the ravages of time and hardships by the person. It also gives greater stamina and a happy disposition, besides increasing the longevity of a person and that too in a tension-free mindset.
The technique is apparently quite simple where you sit in a relaxed posture keeping your spine straight and remaining alert but not tensed. Deep breathing and at the same time concentrating or focusing on one object or name or mantra, “
My problems began when I tried to remain focused on a name. The mind instantly started to veer away from the name and I found myself thinking of other things. I soon brought myself back to my chant with full concentration. A relation complained of falling asleep, we were told that falling asleep also can be of help to some extent although not fully but I am hard put to remain concentrated. I am wondering whether there can be a pre-stage to meditation where I can use some technique to blank my mind of all the thoughts, the answer to which is again meditation. Although I am flummoxed I intend to pursue this form of self-healing. Wish me luck.
Ending on a lighter vein, my five-year-old nephew has cottoned on to the hype about meditation among the house-holders so, whenever a crime of his is detected he immediately sits in a meditative posture and waits for all the storm to blow over before he can again sneak out of the house.
As we move along in life at some time or the other, we are forced to seek guidance from our elders and betters to resolve the issues that bother us. It was at such a stage I discovered to my amazement and horror, that nearly every sagacious saying or quotes have a contradictory saying in some other form. Take for example “Great minds run in the same channel” now comes the contradiction “Fools think alike”
DIABETIC CAKE
1 c. raisins, cooked in 1 c. water, cool
1 c. prunes, cut up, cook in 1 c. water, cool
1 c. applesauce, sweet or unsweetened
2 eggs
1/4 c. Sweet-N-Low
3/4 c. corn oil
2 c. self-rising flour
1 tsp. vanilla
1 tsp. cinnamon
1 tsp. nutmeg
1 tsp. soda
1 c. chopped pecans or black walnuts
Dredge nuts and raisins in flour. Beat egg and applesauce. Combine all ingredients and bake at 350 degrees for 35-40 minutes in shallow pan.
DELICIOUS DIABETIC RECIPES
1 1/2 tsp. liquid sweetener
1 1/2 tsp. baking powder
1/3 c. dates, chopped
1/4 c. flour
1/2 c. nuts
1 1/2 c. bread crumbs
1 c. orange juice
1 c. diet Cool Whip
1/4 c. chunky peanut butter
1 pkg. sugar-free butterscotch pudding (dry)
3 oz. Grape-Nuts cereal
1 tbsp. granulated fructose
1 egg
1 tsp. vanilla extract
3/4 c. flour
1/4 tsp. salt
1/2 c. mini semi-sweet chocolate chips
1 c. prunes, chopped
1 c. raisins
1 c. cold water
1 stick margarine, melted
2 eggs
1 tsp. baking soda
1/4 tsp. salt
1 c. plain flour
1 c. nuts, chopped
1/4 tsp. cinnamon
1/4 tsp. nutmeg
1 tsp. vanilla
A bad workman quarrels with his tools.
A beggar may sing before a pick-pocket.
A bird in hand is worth two in the bush.
A burnt child dreads the fire.
A cat has nine lives.
Action speaks louder than words.
A drowning man will clutch at a straw.
A friend in need is a friend indeed.
After death comes the doctor.
After sweetmeat comes the sour sauce.
A guilty conscience needs no accuser.
All covet, all lost.
An old bird is not to be caught with chaffe.
Earnestness is enthusiasm tempered by reason.- Pascal
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